陈奕迅和杨千嬅 杨千嬅:与陈奕迅超越友情 但毕竟我们各有家庭

[摘要]杨千嬅在最近的一篇博文中梳理了她与陈奕迅的旧关系,她回应道:“我们已经超越了朋友的关系,他对我来说就像家人一样。大家给我写这么好看的爱情剧本是好的,但毕竟我们现在都有自己的家庭和孩子。”

陈奕迅和杨千嬅 杨千嬅:与陈奕迅超越友情 但毕竟我们各有家庭


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杨千嬅和陈奕迅,其实我们的友谊已经超过20年了。他们是在娱乐圈和音乐路一起起步的。他对我来说就像家人一样。有时候我会问他怎么唱好歌。有时候,他会突然对我说,‘杨老师,你的《小城事件》有进步,但结局还是有不足’。其实很多文章都不是真的。粉丝会这样写,说明他们和我们一起长大,有这么美好的幻想空。有这么好看的爱情剧本真好。"
当被问及是否愿意与陈奕迅的女儿订下年轻的婚姻时,她夸张地喊道:“怎么会这样?!我自己都不喜欢订婚。如果我给儿子安排,他肯定会恨我的。”
圈子外的朋友更没有安全感
最近娱乐圈很多明星的婚姻破裂,让人流泪。杨千嬅也会觉得明星的婚姻不稳定吗?她说:“其实我觉得在娱乐圈比较安全,因为太透明了,圈子外的朋友也没有我有安全感。我不考虑‘对方有小三怎么办’的问题。人与人相处不可能安心使用。一开始有很多疑惑,朋友都做不到,何况夫妻。”
她承认婚姻已经从最初的激情变成了现实的感情。“我们像朋友一样相处,互相给予空。比如我下班回家不想说话,可能还沉浸在演戏的心情里,想安安静静的度过,那我老公就不打扰我了,只让我助理做饭,然后给我发信息说下班很辛苦,记得吃饭。爱情的舞台是最激烈最浪漫爱情的巅峰。现在关系从恋爱变成了情感。大家互相照顾,生活步调一致。如果一个人还在恋爱,就会有矛盾。和他一样,他现在也不会送我花了。相反,他会送艾草花。不送花不代表没有心意,反而会更实用。”
当我成为母亲后,我的脾气变得平和了
在谈到他珍贵的儿子时,杨千嬅也滔滔不绝地说:“有个孩子会更安宁。我经常教他要有礼貌,拿别人的东西要说‘谢谢’,但是我不经常对别人说‘谢谢’,因为我太着急了。现在我知道我说的重话会影响工作伙伴的心情,让他们紧张。一切都让我更加了解自己,包容别人。”
她透露,和婆婆没有因为教育下一代问题而有摩擦,反而和自己妈妈有分歧:“因为儿子都是我妈妈带,老一辈人的观念就是,小孩吹空调要穿厚衣服,不然会着凉;我就觉得无所谓。后来我们有了共识,谁带谁说了算。” no-repeat right;padding-right: 37px;}.list_box_over{ padding: 15px 19px 15px 27px; }.v_img{ float: left; position: relative; margin-right: 10px; display: inline; }.v_img p{ position: absolute; bottom: 0px; left: 0px;background-color: rgba;width: 98px;}.v_img p span{ background: url no-repeat 0px 2px; text-align: center; margin-left: 8px; padding-left: 15px; color: #cfb28c;}.v_intr span{ color:#fff; font-size:12px; }#Cnt-Main-Article-QQ { z-index:10}#Cnt-Main-Article-QQ .v_intr p{ color: #666666; margin-top: 4px; line-height: 22px; font-size:12px; margin-bottom:0;}#scr{ width: 8px; background-color:#4b4b4b; position: absolute; height: 470px; right:0;top:0; }#scr span { display:block; width:8px; height:40px; background:#818181;position: absolute; }.listvideoNLayout { height:558px; overflow-x: hidden; overflow-y: auto; scrollbar-arrow-color: #61605d; scrollbar-face-color: #818181;scrollbar-darkshadow-color: #1e1d1b;scrollbar-highlight-color: #818181;scrollbar-3dlight-color: #1e1d1b;scrollbar-shadow-color: #818181;scrollbar-track-color: #4b4b4b; 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